I’m trying to figure out life. And I’m running out of time.

Here is the space where I wrestle with the most difficult questions in my life, those of the heart and those of the reasons for existence and everything that surrounds all the things I can’t quite pin down. Deep stuff. Buckle up.

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The Lonely Have The Answer

Evolutionarily speaking, the feelings we hate the most are good for us. Take fear. Fear sucks, right? But fear also biochemically gets your body ready to fight or flee, and from a survival standpoint, that’s a good thing. Then there is loneliness. I’ve been lonely a lot lately. I mean, an awful lot. This isn’t…

Grief, Twenty-Three Years Later …

As a society, we don’t like messy grief. We make movies and write books about people whose grief is nice and neat and tidy and, most of all, purposeful. Dignified. Proper. But messy grief — or, as I like to call it, real grief … no one makes a movie or writes a book or…

Toxic Sacrifice

It makes sense that, traditionally speaking, men raised in the United States build their life around sacrifice. It’s a deeply embedded part of our culture. As a historically Christian-dominant nation, we are raised with a male-identified God who came to Earth in the form of a man who literally laid down his life not just…

When Old Things Don’t Fit

Most of us are familiar with how it feels when we find an old article of clothing in the back of our closet and make the mistake of trying it on. Bodies change. Styles change. Tastes change. In most instances, closet finds and best left unfound. I think it’s something of a truism in life…

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